There is nothing as devastating as losing someone close to you, and unfortunately, grief often has to be put on hold as you make important decisions and arrangements. One of those tasks is writing an obituary, a responsibility that can feel overwhelming during an already difficult time. But it can also be a meaningful way to honor your loved one’s memory, share their story, and inform friends and family about final arrangements. This guide offers helpful tips, writing advice, and simple examples to support you as you write an obituary with compassion.

Obituary Writing Guide: Tips, Examples, and What to Include

What Is an Obituary?

An obituary is a written notice that announces a person’s passing. It often includes important details like their name, age, date of death, and information about their family, along with service arrangements. It can also include a short story of their life, highlighting who they were, what they loved, and how they’ll be remembered.

What to Include in an Obituary

While every obituary is unique, here are some common elements to consider:

Full name, including maiden name or nickname

Date and place of birth Date and place of passing Brief biography, including education, career, hobbies, or accomplishments Names of immediate family members, living and deceased Details about the funeral or memorial service A personal message or quote, if desired

Remember, an obituary doesn’t need to include everything. Just focus on what feels most important and meaningful for your loved one.

Writing Tips to Keep in Mind

Start with the Basics Begin with a clear, simple sentence announcing the passing. For example: “Jane Smith, 80, of Birmingham, passed away peacefully at home on August 1, 2025.”
Tell Their Story Share a few lines about who they were—their passions, personality, or the legacy they leave behind. This is a chance to celebrate their life and what made them special.
Keep It Clear and Respectful Aim for a tone that’s warm and respectful. Use full names for clarity, and avoid slang or overly casual language.
Review and Edit Have a family member or friend read it over to ensure accuracy and offer feedback. Grief can cloud details, so a second set of eyes is helpful.

Example Obituaries

Example Obituary 1: Short and Traditional

John Doe, 82, of New York City, passed away peacefully on July 10, 2025. He was born on March 15, 1943, in Albany, New York. John dedicated his life to teaching history and was loved by his students and colleagues alike. In retirement, he enjoyed gardening, reading, and spending time with his grandchildren. John is survived by his wife of 58 years, Margaret, their two children, and four grandchildren. A memorial service will be held at Riverdale Community Church on July 15 at 11 a.m. In lieu of flowers, the family asks that donations be made to the Public Library in John’s honor.

Example Obituary 2: Personalized

Emily Rose, age 65, passed away surrounded by family on June 22, 2025, in her hometown of Boston. Emily lived a life full of love, laughter, and compassion. She worked as a nurse for over thirty years and was known for her gentle spirit and kind heart. She loved baking, volunteering, and spending weekends at the lake. Emily is survived by her three children, five grandchildren, and her sister, Claire. A celebration of life will be held at Boston Pavilion on June 29 at 2 p.m. All who knew and loved her are welcome to attend.

Contact Hamel Lydon Chapel & Cremation Services For Support

We understand how difficult it is to say goodbye to someone you love. Our caring team is here to help you write and publish a heartfelt obituary that honors their life with dignity and grace. Contact us by giving us a call at 1-617-472-5888 or 1-800-696-5887 or filling out our contact form.